Depression: Invisible Pain That Can Be Treated
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Introduction
We all face tough times. The loss of a job. The end of a romantic relationship. The death of someone close to us. When we finish the grieving process, usually we’re able to rebuild our lives and return to the level of functioning we were at before these events. At times, however, events like these and others can lead to depression. Depression can also be caused by trauma, such as abuse. And for some, depression is a biological illness, genetically passed down through generations. There can also be a combination of one or more of these factors. |
Sadly in this country there is still a stigma associated with mental illness. Even though these are medical conditions, they are not considered the same as physical health issues. Many times some say depression can be “a sign of weakness” and a person should just “get over it” or “work harder.” However, depression has nothing to do with being weak or lacking effort.
Symptoms of Depression
Depression has a significant effect on functioning and well-being. Symptoms can include experiencing significantly diminished mood, loss of interest in most activities, insomnia, fatigue, feelings of worthlessness, and/or difficulty with concentration, among others, over at least two weeks. These result in an impairment in one or more areas of functioning, such as in work and/or one’s personal life. In the most extreme cases of depression, a person can consider, attempt, or commit suicide.
Hypothetical Scenario
You’re working in a high pressure and intense job requiring you to be available when needed. If the higher-ups say they need you to come in on Saturday or work until 10:00 p.m., then that is what you have to do. But what if you’re depressed and can barely get out of bed? You didn’t sleep most of the night and the sleep you had was interrupted because you woke several times. Your worrying starts to move from moderate into severe territory. “How can I possibly do the quality work that’s expected of me if I’m struggling with even basic functioning?” Even if you make it into work, you find it so difficult to concentrate that what normally takes you 15 minutes to do now takes an hour. You’re forced to stay at the office longer to get your work done and this perpetuates the cycle of decreasing your mood and increasing your anxiety. You’re beating yourself up emotionally because you don’t understand what is happening and are blaming yourself for everything. “Why can’t I just get back to normal?”
This scenario focuses on professional functioning. Depression can also significantly impact personal functioning. You’re not able to handle your home responsibilities, like cleaning the yard, taking the kids to soccer practice, being there for your spouse or partner to provide emotional support after a tough day, and many others. Resentment can build up in your loved one resulting in conflict, which can intensify your already serious negative feelings.
Treatment for Depression
There is no quick and easy cure for ending depression. Thankfully, a combination of treatments and strategies has been found to reduce, and in many cases eliminate, symptoms so a person can return to a normal level of functioning. Meeting with a therapist can be beneficial. Even if people have a strong support system with a spouse or partner, other loved ones and friends, they may feel they don’t want to burden them or they may feel uncomfortable talking with them about these issues. A therapist can provide a safe space to talk and this can be a helpful release of negative emotions and a place to gain insight into the issues that have contributed to depression and develop coping skills. Together you and the therapist can develop a plan to move forward in a productive and positive way to heal.
Another professional treatment is seeing a psychiatrist, a medical doctor whose specialty is psychological matters and who can prescribe medication. Other resources include support groups, faith-based organizations, wellness programs at work, books, articles, and videos. Develop your mental health toolbox with these and other coping skills, such as meditation, exercise, journaling, being in nature, listening to music and creating art. Combining supports can provide the most effective and ideal support to recover from depression.
In Summary
The information in this article is to help you gain insight into depression so you can get the help you need or intervene prior to symptoms becoming severe. You can also encourage others experiencing depression to do the same. The key to remember is you are not alone. You can feel better.
If you’re looking for therapy for depression or other mental health concerns in Wilmington Delaware, West Chester Pennsylvania or by teletherapy anywhere in Delaware, Pennsylvania, New York or Florida, please contact me today for a free consultation.
Take care and be well,
Rich Lombino, Esq., LCSW
Therapist & Lawyer
Symptoms of Depression
Depression has a significant effect on functioning and well-being. Symptoms can include experiencing significantly diminished mood, loss of interest in most activities, insomnia, fatigue, feelings of worthlessness, and/or difficulty with concentration, among others, over at least two weeks. These result in an impairment in one or more areas of functioning, such as in work and/or one’s personal life. In the most extreme cases of depression, a person can consider, attempt, or commit suicide.
Hypothetical Scenario
You’re working in a high pressure and intense job requiring you to be available when needed. If the higher-ups say they need you to come in on Saturday or work until 10:00 p.m., then that is what you have to do. But what if you’re depressed and can barely get out of bed? You didn’t sleep most of the night and the sleep you had was interrupted because you woke several times. Your worrying starts to move from moderate into severe territory. “How can I possibly do the quality work that’s expected of me if I’m struggling with even basic functioning?” Even if you make it into work, you find it so difficult to concentrate that what normally takes you 15 minutes to do now takes an hour. You’re forced to stay at the office longer to get your work done and this perpetuates the cycle of decreasing your mood and increasing your anxiety. You’re beating yourself up emotionally because you don’t understand what is happening and are blaming yourself for everything. “Why can’t I just get back to normal?”
This scenario focuses on professional functioning. Depression can also significantly impact personal functioning. You’re not able to handle your home responsibilities, like cleaning the yard, taking the kids to soccer practice, being there for your spouse or partner to provide emotional support after a tough day, and many others. Resentment can build up in your loved one resulting in conflict, which can intensify your already serious negative feelings.
Treatment for Depression
There is no quick and easy cure for ending depression. Thankfully, a combination of treatments and strategies has been found to reduce, and in many cases eliminate, symptoms so a person can return to a normal level of functioning. Meeting with a therapist can be beneficial. Even if people have a strong support system with a spouse or partner, other loved ones and friends, they may feel they don’t want to burden them or they may feel uncomfortable talking with them about these issues. A therapist can provide a safe space to talk and this can be a helpful release of negative emotions and a place to gain insight into the issues that have contributed to depression and develop coping skills. Together you and the therapist can develop a plan to move forward in a productive and positive way to heal.
Another professional treatment is seeing a psychiatrist, a medical doctor whose specialty is psychological matters and who can prescribe medication. Other resources include support groups, faith-based organizations, wellness programs at work, books, articles, and videos. Develop your mental health toolbox with these and other coping skills, such as meditation, exercise, journaling, being in nature, listening to music and creating art. Combining supports can provide the most effective and ideal support to recover from depression.
In Summary
The information in this article is to help you gain insight into depression so you can get the help you need or intervene prior to symptoms becoming severe. You can also encourage others experiencing depression to do the same. The key to remember is you are not alone. You can feel better.
If you’re looking for therapy for depression or other mental health concerns in Wilmington Delaware, West Chester Pennsylvania or by teletherapy anywhere in Delaware, Pennsylvania, New York or Florida, please contact me today for a free consultation.
Take care and be well,
Rich Lombino, Esq., LCSW
Therapist & Lawyer
