Oftentimes, we set unrealistic goals for ourself, don’t achieve those unrealistic goals, and then are down on ourselves that we didn’t achieve them. This can lead to mental health concerns, such as anxiety, depression, burnout, sleep issues, relationship concerns, career challenges and more. The reality usually is not our effort, but in setting the goal. For example, let’s say we have a to do list for today that has 10 things on it. A more realistic list would have 3 things. At the end of the day, we complete 4 things. Because our goal was unrealistic at 10 things, we view the day in a negative light. The reality is we actually over-achieved because a more realistic list was 3 and we did 4. The facts are the same, but how we view the day differs on how we manage our expectations. Setting achievable goals is a key to building momentum for positive change.
If you’d like to learn more about this or other topics, contact me for a free consultation. Take care and be well, Rich Lombino, Esq., LCSW Therapist & Lawyer Lombino Counseling LLC (302) 273-0700 [email protected] richlombino.com Therapy in Delaware, Pennsylvania, New York & Florida
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When we don’t sleep well, there’s usually one or more reasons. Some are somewhat out of our control, such as the noise from a thunderstorm outside. But many others can be improved. Some affect physical health, some mental health, and some both. Some things that can help include:
-Going to sleep and waking up around the same time each day -Getting enough hours of sleep -Avoiding alcohol, caffeine, sugar and other substances late in the day -Avoid exercising late at night -Avoid your phone and other screens at least 30 minutes before sleep time -Try meditation, journaling and/or deep breathing to quiet your mind If you’d like to learn more about improving sleep hygiene or other topics, contact me for a free consultation. Take care and be well, Rich Lombino, Esq., LCSW Therapist & Lawyer Therapy in Delaware, Pennsylvania, New York & Florida
When we openly think about and express being thankful for something in our life, it points our brain in the right direction of the things that truly matter, verses the minor frustrations that will soon become footnotes in our life journey. That’s not to say what you may be going through right now isn’t difficult, it’s more about keeping it in perspective of the big picture and long term goals you have for yourself.
If you’d like to learn more about how feeling thankful can positively impact your mental health or some other concern, contact me for a free consultation. Take care and be well, Rich Lombino, Esq., LCSW Therapist & Lawye
It’s important to embrace the therapeutic mantra of “meeting them where they’re at.” What does this mean? It involves listening carefully and assessing what the person is looking for that could be helpful. It’s understandable to want to fix things or solve problems and provide a possible framework to do that. And in some cases, that’s exactly what a person needs. But sometimes, people just need to vent and feel heard. This can be very powerful in helping them calm down and feel better. Another strategy to consider is to ask them what they need. “I hear that you’re having a tough time right now. Do you need to vent and get it out or do you also need help with problem solving? I’m here for whatever you need.” Also, here’s more details about providing support to someone experiencing anxiety or depression.
If you’d like to learn more about these topics or others, contact me today for a free consultation. Take care and be well. Rich Lombino, Therapist & Lawyer |
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